"Yesterday, four million Coloradans went to work and played football in
their front yard; strangers opened doors for each other; people gave
blood, offered shelter, served hot meals, held grandkids, played pick-up
basketball and committed unnumbered acts of kindness and gentleness.
One Coloradan dressed up like a villain and believed that by showing up at the site of America’s mythical hero he could slay our actual heroes.
It’s true there was no Batman sitting in the theater to fly down and
tackle James Holmes, as he hoped there might be. He had tactical assault
gear covering his whole body, ready for America to fight back.
But
love is more organized than that. Love has cellphones and ambulances,
nurses and doctors, complete strangers and policemen and emergency
responders always at the ready. Love has nurses who will jump out of bed
in the middle of the night and get family members to watch their
children so they can rush to the hospital and save the life of someone
they’ve never met. Love has first responders who will walk into a
booby-trapped building to save the lives of neighbors they will never
meet.
It must be lonely being James Holmes, spending the first part
of your life planning alone for an act that will leave you sitting alone
for the rest of your life. For the rest of us, life is crowded. Love is
always only three numbers and one movie seat away.
We have lived
our country’s history as a chapter of wars, and many of those wars we
have been blessed to win. We are a team that loves each other and will
fight for each other, and if you punch us in the mouth, we will fight
back.
That is one of our obvious strengths, but it is not our
greatest strength. America’s awesome strength to fight is overwhelmed by
its irrepressible strength to love. James Holmes took twelve lives last
night. Love saved fifty-nine lives. Policemen on the scene in minutes,
strangers carrying strangers, nurses and doctors activated all over the
city.
But we didn’t stop there. Love saved the 700 other people who walked out of the Aurora movie theater unhurt. But we didn’t stop there. Love saved the 5,000 who went to see Batman
all over Colorado, and the 1.2 million who saw it all over the country,
who walked in and out safely with their friends, arm in arm. But we
didn’t stop there. Love claimed the four million other Coloradans who
went to bed peacefully last night, ad who woke up this morning committed
to loving each other a little deeper.
The awe of last night is not
that a man full of hate can take twelve people’s lives; it is that a
nation full of love can save 300 million lives every day. I sat this
morning wondering what I could do to help: give blood, support victims,
raise money, stop violence. How could we start to fight back?
My
friends were texting me that they had plans to take their kids to Batman
tonight but were now afraid to go. Others who were going to play
pick-up basketball or go out to dinner were now afraid to leave home.
They thought they would bunker down in their home and wonder, 'How do we
fight back?'
The answer is we love back. We live back. We deepen
our commitments to all the unnumbered acts of kindness that make America
an unrendable fabric. We respond by showing that we will play harder,
and longer. We will serve more meals, play more games, eat more food,
listen to more jazz, go to more movies, give more hugs, and say more
“thank yous” and “I love yous” than ever before.
So while James
Holmes settles into the cell where he will spend the rest of his life,
wondering what we will do to fight back, we will love back. We will go
to a park this afternoon and play soccer, we will go to the playground
and restaurants and movie theaters of our city all weekend and all year.
He should know not only that he failed in his demented attempt to be
the villain, but that Batman didn’t have to leap off the screen to stop
him, because we had a far more organized and powerful force than any
superhero could ever have. Even the twelve lives that he took, this
nation will love so strongly and so deeply that we will ensure they get a
lifetime full of love out of a life he tried to cut short.
And the
fifty-nine lives we took back will be so overrun with love that they
will live their lives feeling blessed every day, and everyone who ever
meets them will pass on in an instant a love they never knew they earned
but we will never let them forget.
In a movie theatre in Aurora 50
years from now, one of last night’s survivors will be waiting in the
popcorn line and mention that he was in Theatre 9 on that terrible
summer night in 2012. And inexplicably, with an arm full of popcorn, a
total stranger will reach out and give that old man a huge hug and say, 'I’m so glad you made it.'
Love back. We’ve already won."
.JPG)
.JPG)
.JPG)
.JPG)
.JPG)
